I apologize for not posting for a while, I was seriously sick, I was admitted for a while but I’m home now and better.
I was watching keeping up with the kardashians a while back and it was the episode that Kylie complained about her anxiety and how she cares too much about what people say, Kim told her she once used to care, but this post is not about the kardashians but how to stop caring so much about what people think!
You need to know that
People are jealous
Really, why else will someone sit down and bad mouth another person? One thing I’ve learnt in life is that people do not go for people that are beneath them.
No, they go for those that intimidate them one way or the other!
People want to feel better about their self
I remember when we used to gather in the hostel (Secondary school, I was like 14) and talk about girls that have done worse than us or that are failing in school, why? Because we wanted to feel better about our grades and when we talk about the ones doing so well the gossip is usually short and then we start saying education is not everything
People are bored with their life
I cannot imagine myself now, so busy, working on my blog, trying to be consistent on two instagram accounts, the photography aspect of this blog, one year left in the university to sit down and start talking about someone! I don’t even have enough time to complain about the economy because I’ve built myself not to complain about things that I can’t change! Before I go into the economy back to what we we’re saying!
I remember a time when I was in the cafeteria and some girls in my front we’re seriously laughing at a guy, the way he walks and how dirty he looked, I looked at them, they were seriously laughing then I looked at the guy he didn’t care, he was talking to his guys and he had a very big smile.
Then It hit me that people can talk but it affects you only when you allow it
He was simply unbothered.
Its not that deep!
Take talk as talk! Don’t let it get to you, some people just talk for talking sake not knowing/caring about the person, some people are careless man, they think blunt is being COOL.
Stop reading meaning into people’s attitude, some people have attitude problems.
You can’t be perfect! The earlier you know and appreciate that, the better and more happy you’ll be in life, I promise you!
People choose to see what they want to see, you’re like Art, an amazing painting, people read different meaning to each artwork so do they to you.
Forget about the darn standards that don’t exist!
Don’t let people get into your head because then, you’re giving them the power to hurt you!
Am I leaving something out? Another tip you’ll love to share with us? Please do. I’ll love to hear from you