Before getting involved with someone, you need to know if you’re ready for a relationship.
If you feel like you need to be in a relationship to be happy that’s a bad reason. Happiness comes from within and not from another person and even if you’re lucky and it does come what about when they leave? You go back to zero.
It’s important to be emotionally matured before getting into a relationship so you don’t hurt yourself and leave an innocent person with scars.
How I Know that Am Not Ready For A Relationship
I feel like I want a great relationship but something tells me that I just need someone to chill with to put body and soul together. You know what I mean 😊?
You see, I love the idea of being in love but I don’t know what I want.
I want to fight my battles alone.
I’m not satisfied with where I am so I’m growing everyday.
I want to look back and be proud of what I’ve achieved alone.
I want to understand myself fully and build my career by myself so if ever my fear of being betrayed dances around in my face.
I will know that I can overcome this alone, and no one’s help was / is needed.
I don’t want someone to be the second choice in my life when I am their priority.
I simply am not ready for a relationship.
If we have any of these things in common, you should make sure that you deal with them before getting into a relationship.
Trust me. You don’t want to be someone’s mistake.
BTW – who missed me??
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