Sounds weird right? Like why will I leave someone that is good for me.
Now am here to preach about never staying with someone you don’t love because they are Good for you.
I have noticed that ladies stay with men they are not in love with but are good to them Because of the fear of not getting a good man. I know they are rare.
And we as ladies wanting good men are supposed to hold on to anyone we find.
I have talked about love not being enough in a relationship, so imagine if it’s one sided, or there is none at all.
You see my last relationship was like this – at first everything was all exciting, but later I started loosing interest, everything happened too fast at the beginning and I thought I was ready for a relationship but I was not. And he is such an amazing person that loves me genuinely, I am so sure.
But my love for him was no longer there, I was angry at myself because of the promises have made and I can’t fulfill. I was sad and worried about breaking up.
But I could not stay because of his love and because he’s a good person, I would have never been satisfied and along the line the relationship will still crash.
When you stay with people you don’t love you’re keeping them away from someone that will.
So I broke up, he didn’t take it well as I expected, I felt very sad, I had no right to make him feel that way. It was difficult but the best solution.
If I had stayed, I would be keeping him from the person that will love him forever, and from the one I will grow to love.
And love from oneside in a relationship will never be enough.
Don’t stay with a good man you do not love because of your fears.
And also African men, don’t marry a woman that fits the portfolio of a good wife only to start cheating on her with spontaneous girls!
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